There's snow on the ground here but not enough to go out and have fun in. Just enough to be annoying and to give me just enough free time to make another post here.

Hey there! Long time lurker, first second time poster. I’m no stranger to APs but it’s been a while since I’ve had one that clicked and lasted long enough to be memorable.

A Bit About Me:

• Married with a small child.
• East coast
• Dark hair, blue eyes, maintained beard.
• No tattoos (I know, I’m sorry. I would if I could.)
• 5’8” and on the chubbier side but I’d like but I think I wear it well.
• A bit of a nerd but with a twist. I’m as into playing d&d with friends as I am into watching Football with the same friends
• Other hobbies include, but are not limited to: listening to the same 50 songs on Spotify, spending way too long picking something to watch only to scroll on my phone while its on, being crushed by the existential dread of falling short of being a great parent despite my best efforts, also Pogs.

What I’m Looking For:

• I’m looking to catch feelings. Plain and simple. I’m not looking for a fling or something 9-5, M-F. I’m looking for the butterflies, the quickened heart rate when the notification comes through and attachment. I have a lot of attention and affection to give and no one here who wants it.
• Ideally you're married so we both have the same skin in the game and ideally you’re a mother so you understand the struggle 😅 (though this is not required)
• Someone funny or witty. I can look past a lot but not a lack of a sense of humor.
• Hopefully someone who shares the same interests as me so we can better connect and converse. Though I’ve been stepping out of my comfort zone (reading a spicy book!) lately so always open to new interests.
• USA only. I’ve tried international romance but it isn't for me.
• Physical attraction is obviously something that’s important but I don’t really have a preference on looks.

I’ll end with the obligatory disclaimer, albeit with a twist: while I’m not looking for either one of us to change our situations, I want us both to want to.