More specific this time and very strict about the below criteria.. I won’t reconsider. Don’t try to sell me something I’m not looking for!

I’m a 38-year-old professional, married, and currently making an exciting career transition into something bigger and better. Live in the CST. I’m 5'1", 112 lbs, and while I work out to stay healthy, it’s not a hobby. I have brown hair and eyes. I travel often to explore new places and escape from life . I love cooking and eating healthy, and I enjoy treating myself to spa days and massages. Hopefully, you're into that too!

I’ll also admit that being here is engaging in maladaptive behavior (not exactly the healthiest coping mechanism, I know). But I’m hoping to find my Theo James.

What I'm Looking For: friend and partner - long term

This time, I’m raising the bar. I’m not interested in mediocre connections or games. I value honesty, kindness, and ambition in a partner. I’m looking for someone between the ages of 35 and 44.

I prefer married white men with brown eyes and hair who are 5'9" to 6'0" tall athletic(no one above 6'0”—it’s a neck thing). Clean-shaven or with light stubble is a must; no beards, please. No bald men either—just not my thing. I appreciate someone who dresses well or is open to letting me help pick out an outfit (yes, I enjoy that!).

It’s important that you are secure, confident, and have a clear sense of who you are. If you have anger issues or are sexually frustrated due to rejection in your relationship, this won’t work. I’m not here for just sexting or superficial interactions. If you’re someone who values depth and genuine connections, let’s talk.

Other Important Things:

Drug-free Disease-free Liberal or old type of republican [ you know the one prior to the cult] Non-smoker (no vaping, please) Big NO for cake eater or happily after folks Please don’t message me if you live in the following states: TX, GA, KS, AZ, CO. Don’t ask why. Don’t send message justifying why I should reconsider a 28 years old man or 50 or any of the above criteria.

If we establish a connection and are on the same page, I’m looking to meet in person within few months of getting to know each other. Trust is crucial this time, so please be honest about what you're looking for and don’t waste time .