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I've been married for over 8 years now, and there just feels like there is something missing. We are two very different people, joined now more by our mutual love for our children than any real affection towards each other. We just had another, but even that is just because we both love our kids and wanted one more - as it stands we will divorce when the kids are grown but can tolerate each other until then. I have tried to recapture that sense of affection for each other, but it seems like it is just too far gone at this point. So here I am.
I am from the U.S. east coast. I'm a writer in my spare time, I work in IT, and I'm a military veteran and a volunteer firefighter. I spent a few years playing Mr. Mom and I loved it. I am a reasonable amateur chef with occasional delusions of grandeur. Self-taught handyman extraordinaire. I am out of shape and actively trying to get back to at least just having a dad bod. Shaved head and clean-shaven. I am a colossal nerd. I love memes and have one for almost every occasion. I tease a lot and poke fun, but only when I like you.
Physical attraction is a big thing of course; I would like to exchange photos relatively early, but the connection is more important to me. I am looking for a friend that I enjoy talking to first and foremost. I want to be excited to feel my phone buzz again. If you happen to live in the NJ area, even better. If you think you might be that missing piece, send me a chat or a message. Let's explore and figure it out together.
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