I’ve been here before, found something incredible, and we both knew it was time to end it. However, I’m missing that spark, that light, that feeling of being cherished and desired.

Having someone to greet me in the morning, engage in conversations throughout the day and evening, and bid me goodnight at night. Sending pictures, videos, and voice messages is all fine with me. We can start as friends and gradually transition to the more intimate aspects of our relationship as we feel comfortable. I’m quite kinky, but I lead a rather conventional life.

I’ve been in a long-term relationship for 10 years, we don’t have children, and our bedroom is quite empty. There’s a long story behind that, but I’m considering making some changes in the future. However, I don’t expect you to change your situation, and I’m not looking for someone to change theirs either. But if the right person is willing to meet up in the distant future, I’m open to it.

I have very flexible availability. I’m not seeking just a casual conversation during the day. I understand that life comes first, but I already feel like a third wheel in my personal life, and I don’t want that in my online relationship either.

I’m a BBW/plus-size woman with blue eyes and blond hair. I’m not particularly bothered by exchanging pictures early on, but looks aren’t everything to me. There’s so much more to a person. I’m intelligent, have a professional job, and I can be quite sarcastic and have a dark sense of humor. The more you get to know me, the more you’ll see that.

In my free time, I enjoy watching sports, reading, cooking, and playing video games. I’m a bit of a nerd/geek who loves sports in general.

I’m not sure what I’m specifically looking for, except for a man around the late 30s or older. I’m in the Eastern Standard Time zone, so a similar time zone works best for me. I start my day early and can hold a meaningful conversation, rather than just giving short, one-word answers. I’m looking for something that can be long-term.

I’d like to move on from here sooner rather than later, since we all know that Reddit chat can be quite frustrating.

I just want one person.