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And by this I mean simply enduring the toxicity in our respective marriages. I know there are plenty of men and women on here in mostly happy marriages, but that’s not all of us. Some have genuinely concerning marriages that take a massive toll on our mental and emotional wellbeing and we lurk around on here hoping for any semblance of a lifeline, albeit an imperfect one.
Despite how pessimistic that sounds, I know there are enough of us on here who feel lonely and disrespected and exhausted from trying to make something work and not getting equal (or any) investment, and I do believe in the good that can come from being a source of support. Not that we have to trauma dump or always be talking about the shit at home - I’m here to reclaim some life, excitement, flirtation, and even passion. Let’s laugh with each other, let’s match each other’s efforts (because yes, effort is sexy), build the sexual tension, and if/when needed, be a place to blow off some steam from the latest fight going on. Love a woman with wit, levity, and humor. Culture, class, confidence.
As far as me, I’m 32, dad of two little ones (absolutely love dad life), athletic, attractive, Latino, well-educated with a great, professional job. Into sports, drawing, cooking, reading, music, and anything outdoors. Happy to swap pics early to prove the “attractive” part.
Really hoping I’m not naïve to think there’s a woman out there who relates to both that despair at slowly dying a little more each day and also that drive to fight back, together.
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