I've posted on here before with varying degrees of success. If nothing else, I've learned a lot about what I want and what I don't. So I thought I'd try putting down exactly what I'm looking for, even at the risk of making myself sound somewhat shallow or picky with some of it. Maybe that's true, but we like what we like, right? I know some of these things come with time, but why not put it all out there up front?

• Location: I'm in CST so I'd prefer if you were in North America.

• Availability: I want to be able to talk with you throughout the day. Of course I respect that you have other things going on in your life (in fact I hope you do) and I won't go all crazy if you don't respond within minutes, but if you're only available during the day while you're at work... that won't work.

• Age: please be younger than me, so like in the 25-35 range. I know that there are many wonderful women out there who are older than me, and I've enjoyed talking with you but it just doesn't seem to work for me.

• Personality - I enjoy a generally happy person. Fun loving. Don't take yourself too seriously. Kind-hearted and caring.

• Conversation: you don't need to write novels but be able to expand on things and give more than 3 word answers. Volunteer things about your life and be interested in mine.

• Hobbies: I don't think it matters whether we have any of the same hobbies or not. But it's nice if you have at least a few things you're interested in, and I promise I'll be interested in hearing you talk about them.

• Messaging app: Telegram

• Kids: It doesn't matter if you have kids or not, just as long as they don't take up all your attention, because I want some of it too!

• Appearance: You don't have to be "thin" but I do prefer if you are somewhere on the spectrum of slim to average/curvy body type. Above all I love a cute face.

• Pictures: I like a girl that enjoys sharing pictures. I don't just mean naughty pictures, I love to see your face and snapshots into your day.

• Kinks: I don't have a list of kinks that you need to be into, as long as you have an adventurous spirit and enjoy some experimentation in your life. I am on the dominant side so it's nice if you're somewhat submissive but that's not a requirement.

About me: I've spent this whole post talking about what I want, I suppose you're starting to wonder who the hell is this guy and why should you bother? I'm from Canada. Married with two kids. I enjoy a good book just as much as a good run outside. I have a lot of attention to give to the right woman and I'm not afraid of catching feelings if that's where things go, it's happened before. I have been told I'm handsome, and have also been ghosted after the picture exchange, so... take your chance? (Side note, if you haven't been ghosted after the pic exchange have you even truly onlineaffaired?)

If you're at all interested in learning more about me, please introduce yourself and we can go from there.