Fancy meeting you here! :)

My post is likely going to be a short novel and quite specific, but the last time I did this, I met someone and had a wonderful two-year relationship, which I think counts as an OA success story, so I’m sticking with what works.

So, about me: I’m a whole 153 cm (that’s about 5ft for the American friends), blue eyes, and short curly hair. I go to the gym a couple of times a week, but I come from a long lineage of hips, ass, and boobs, and don’t spend my time ruminating about my belly, marks, or freckles. I’m a bookworm—I even have the glasses to prove it. I love a game of Rummikub, building puzzles, and rabbit-hole scrolling. True to my age and gender cohort, I love a good true crime podcast or show. I avidly follow a bunch of different sports (F1, Rugby, Cricket, NHL, Football). I love learning about what makes people tick, what makes them smile involuntarily, what gives them the ick, what song takes them back to being 15, alone in their room, feeling alien. What song would they play just before stepping into the WWE ring? I work for myself and from home. Largely speaking, I have my shit together. My marriage is happy, I travel often, I’m insatiably curious, and emotionally open, and I value honesty and good communication.

I’m looking for someone who can reciprocate that. Who understands that chemistry is 50% instant, 50% about getting into the nooks of someone's mind. Someone who wants a friend, someone who wants to be known, and who wants to know me. I want a foundation of friendship to build everything else on. Sex is great. Sex, laughter, and knowing each other are phenomenal.

About you: Please be over 30, with time and desire to build a relationship. Be open-minded, emotionally available, and intelligent. Be willing to take things slow and see how they naturally unfold. If you love nurturing, if the idea of having someone come sit on your lap or curl into your side for cuddles and care is appealing, and if you like women who are independent and take care of themselves but soften for you and lean on you, please come forward.

If you’ve read this and it resonates, and you feel those initial flickers of chemistry, DM me. Effort in your response is hugely appreciated. Also, let me know your age and where you’re from so we can figure out time zones and all that pretty soon.

I hope to hear from you soon :)