Hi there :), I’ve seemingly got it all. Nice big house, great kids, a growing business. All you could ever want right? Well not quite. Marriage is on the rocks, and has been for some time (we’re honestly just not super compatible people). We’re trying a break to see how it goes, not something we’ve ever done or believed in, but considering the circumstances we think it may be best right now. Our relationship is devoid of any passion and romantic love. The sex used to be great when we actually felt connected, at this point it’s almost pointless as neither of us have an emotional connection even though we’re still very physically attracted to each other. I despise having sex with her if I know she doesn’t want to- I hate fake shit. I miss that spark of a new relationship, the excitement every time your phone vibrates, at this point it doesn’t even like we’re in one. We’re more just coparents but we’re good at that together. I’ve been with my SO for 11 years. We have two wonderful children and I am very pleased with them. The two main reasons we haven’t split yet are:

1. I don’t want to break up our family. We are great co-parents to our kids and I think that family structure is important if two people can at least get along with one another. 
2. I don’t want her getting whatever she would get in a divorce. Especially as my business grows. Women have so much leverage in this situation in our modern culture (more than many realize). 

I’ve done this once before and found a truly incredible connection with someone but it ended because they realized they could no longer be with their SO. I wanted no part of that as I’m not looking to change my or anyone else’s situation. These things take time to nurture but can turn into something special.

Now for the physical stats, 6’2, fit, attractive. I’m not Brad Pitt, but I’ve generally been able to get any woman I’ve ever wanted to in my life if that says anything (not being cocky just being real- in fact I hate cockiness as a trait). My wife is a 10 physically, so it’s gonna be tough to find someone that physically attractive but I’m looking for someone at least in the ball park. Fitness is a hobby, you don’t have to be into it like me but I need someone that takes care of themself. I need someone physically attractive as well, I know it’s shallow but let’s be honest that’s where attraction starts. I’m mature enough to not ghost people. I’m a busy man and my kids and business come first as that’s how I provide for them, but I can definitely carve out some time for someone special ;). I can hold a conversation on a variety of topics as I’m pretty eclectic so I definitely need to connect with someone on a deep level.

I want to get to know you better than anyone else. Morning texts, good night texts, all of that. Sexting, physical intimacy obviously if things get to that naturally. I want us to enhance each other’s lives, find passion again, and fulfill each other in ways our partners just never could.

I’m CST but could make other times work.

If this sounds good to you send me a dm and we can move this off Reddit to snap or telegram. PS please don’t message if this doesn’t sound like you and waste either your time or mine. That’s the most precious thing we all have.