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If you get the reference, you've already won.

I'm searching for a long term emotional connection. I've had it before, and it was great. However it came to a point where my partner was having an issue with the stress that comes with having an OA.

So I'm here, again - bashing my head against the wall andslowly becoming the physical embodiment of the definition of insanity in hopes of finding someone.

Anyways, without further ado;

I'm from Canada. I'm a 34 year old married man and doting father of two incredible children. I'm bald with a big beard, strong arms and tattoos. I'm confident in my appearance and have no issues showing a picture of myself early on to determine physical attraction - I think it's important, but secondary to an intellectual or emotional connection. I want to tiptoe on the border of obsession. I want to adore you and I want you to make you feel the same way.

I'm here because I find myself needing more. I find myself starved emotionally and physically, underappreciated and unseen. I work full time and handle the finances, household duties and scheduling. My wife is gorgeous, she's a SAHM and at the end of the day she's overstimulated, touched out and beside herself. When I'm home, I take over everything so she can recharge for the next day. She hasn't had to touch the laundry or dishes in years - I take pride in the amount that I take on and it's what I signed up for, I don't want an award or anything but it's become a norm and seems to go by completely unnoticed...

I enjoy cooking elaborate meals for people I care about, baking bread, focaccia, all the good stuff. I recently started getting into wine making, and I decompress doing some computer programming and spending time outdoors with the kids.

If you made it this far, you might as well shoot me a message and see where it goes. I promise I only bite when it's appropriate.