TLDR: looking for another person who constantly craves sensuality from new people, loves nudity not just in a sexual way but truly just appreciates seeing others in their most natural form, obviously seeking the fun and spark of a secret partner, even more points if this is a part of you that you enjoy about yourself with no shame but still keep it hidden to maintain relationships or the much cleaner outside perception of yourself.

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Figure writing a novel is probably not always ideal for all but hopefully it leads to meeting someone who strongly connects with what I strive for and feel.

What I'm looking for?

I'm a way probably just my mind twin. The mental connection with someone who thinks and feels similar to me is one of the things I desire most from this space. Sensuality, pleasure, mental and physical stimulation are some of our biggest drivers.

To start I love the naked body. Short or tall, skinny or chubby, young or old, any skin color, natural body hair or shaved, I just love to admire every aspect of it. Even more so when the person admired truly enjoys showing it off. I'm very much like that, my body isn't perfect but I love being naked with my partner even in non sexual context.

The next part is kind of an extension of the first part, but seeking someone who might consider themselves deep down to be kinky if not a bit pervy. Not necessarily in the ropes and handcuffs type of kinky (which doesn't mean I don't like that), but more in the sense of having a very active and unconventional sexual mind. For example, almost anyone I see my mind wanders into how their body looks, the feelings and all the sensory stimulation that would come from enjoying each other's bodies. Maybe anytime your friends mention sex your mind immediately drift into picturing them and their partners enjoying each other. Also really enjoys porn and is okay with it. For me it's a love of less conventional stuff, more along the lines of masturbation, showing off bodies, romantic sex with real partners, or even quicky not fully undressed sex. Just stuff that feels more real and passionate. For me it's not a love of porn to the extent where I need to watch it every day or very often or its creating a problem, it's more to highlight the mentality behind enjoying it and loving the fact that I i enjoy it. If you have deeper pervy desires that you have never discussed in person with anyone, it's also a huge turn on to discuss and learn about in an inhibited manner, no judgement for almost anything really.

And last, obviously being okay or even enjoying the fact that we're doing something in secret. Cliche and every post has it, ideally we're both in relationships where we want to maintain our current situations but just seeking the fun, spark, and flame that comes from having a connection in secret.

Who am I?

In my 30s, professional working in my studied career and I'd consider myself fairly successfull. Overweight in a dad body type of way but working on improving that since I was more fit before I injured myself. Romantic relationship is good honestly, sex isn't bad by any means but my mind can't help but constantly crave a new person to explore this side of ourselves. Despite my thoughts and desires, in person in always respectful and I strive to never make anyone uncomfortable or uneasy. While I seek to have an inhibited exploration of each other, I will respect any boundary you're wanting to set.