I know this isn't going to be everyone's cup of tea, and that's okay, but maybe what I have to say sounds like a good idea to some of you.

I've been doing some form of this for a while, and some of the best connections I've had (including by far the best and longest) started out as sexting buddies/friends with benefits and blossomed into more from there.

I'm not saying that's guaranteed to happen, but there's something to be said for starting out with lowered expectations and just focusing on the fun. Maybe part of it is that the conversation flows more easily when it's focused on the fun things, where there tends to be a lot of interests in common. After all, it's part of the reason we're all here.

With that, a bit about me. I'm married and have two kids. Have a professional office job. I like books, beer and boobs (and other things, but how can you pass up that kind of alliteration?). I'm fairly dominant but it's not imperative that you be submissive. Above all else I have an adventurous spirit and enjoy exploring different things. I'm 5'10 and have a fairly average build.

Please be in a North American time zone. I enjoy being able to talk to someone throughout the day but I suppose that's not a requirement at this point, considering the lowered up front expectations thing. I tend to prefer women with a slim to average body type and who is around my age or younger.

I feel as though I need to end my post with a disclaimer that I am not expecting nudes or full on sexting right away. I'm not here to get my rocks off today and then disappear. Long-term is still the goal after all.

With all that said, come say hi and let's have some fun!