Searching for my Christmas AP. Not exactly the heartwarming Hallmark film many would enjoy, but here we are. I am hoping to find "the one". Does it exist on Reddit? Realistically, probably not. I'm a romantic and a bit of a dreamer, for this post, we're going to pretend it might.

This is some of what I'm looking for, and a little about me.

What's on my AP Christmas List:

Emotionally Available: I am looking for an emotional connection as much as a physical one. I am a believer that you can deeply love someone and have a connection and not physically be in the same space. I am looking to do just that.

Be Understanding of time gaps: I am not always going to be on my phone. I work a lot and sometimes long hours, I have responsibilities like all of us, and I do have time to talk daily, but there are times You may go several hours without hearing from me. I am more available in the evening. If youre just looking for a 'work wife' Im probably not for you.

Knowing what you want: I am looking for a man who knows what he wants, and is interested in showing me more of himself besides pictures and videos of his junk. I am looking for more than a sexting fling. I am looking for something long term.

Meeting up (or not): While I am not looking to meet, if the universe puts us together in close proximity, I wouldn’t be opposed. I very much exist in the realm of 'if it's meant to be, it will happen".

Let's leave reddit: I would prefer to exchange messages elsewhere, and I am open to video and voice calls.

As for me:

I am college educated.child free. In a very long relationship that has now turned into a comfortable, routine, companionship type thing. I do work a lot, and my interests and tastes in things varies. I tend to enjoy the bright and beautiful maximalist side of life, but I'm also a little jaded. I love vinyl, all kinds of music, podcasts, iced coffee, and deep conversation. I have a big personality, no filter, and my heart on my sleeve. I prefer more artistic things over sports. I am outgoing, I love taking and sending photos, and will send the most random dad jokes, poems, and sweet things to you when they come to mind. I will also fill you in on workplace drama because my coworkers are.... Special. I tend to open up a bit slowly, but I like to think that I’m worth it.

I am a bigger/thicc/curvy woman. If that is not your type, I am probably not for you.

If you made it through this ridiculously long winded post, and I have caught your interest somehow, please feel free to drop me a line. When you respond, please feel free to tell me about yourself, and tell me the best gift you ever got as a kid .

Merry Christmas, here’s to love.