I am 44 from looking to find a connection that hopefully builds organically. I value authentic connections where we can just be ourselves without judgement. I am looking for someone who has the ability to communicate and has emotional intelligence. Someone who doesn’t take themselves too seriously and someone who just likes to chill and brings good vibes.

Im complex and looking for someone to navigate this crazy world with. Music is my life. Hip hop/R&B/Soul/rock/Funk/Indie/Everything 90’s. Sprinkle in oldies, classic rock, and blues. I love going to concerts and shows. Im an introverted extrovert if that makes sense. Otherwise a selected extravert. I enjoy good food, movies, sports, comedy, and good conversations.

I have a sense of humor and experience a lot of funny situations in my day to day life. People who also have a sense of humor and who are also analytical will often get my sense of humor. I often have to play a certain role in my daily life but I would like us to just be us and be who we are without fear of judgement.

It is my hope that at the end of all this it will lead to a great connection. Please have a sense of humor and passion about something. We don’t have to have be interested in the same things as I love to learn. I am an advocate and definitely progressive and earn my money by trying to make the world a better place.

If you like to chill, listen to music, laugh, and are looking to build a strong connection based on fun, getting to know each other, good vibes, and talking about deeper issues as we progress, hit me up so we can share songs, shows, jokes, and goofy TikTok’s and/or YouTube videos.

For complete transparency, I am married but separated and am not looking to interact with anyone who is in a happy relationship or anyone who is still hoping to work on their relationship. If that’s you, get off of here and work on your shit 😂 My wife and I are separated but we still are bad ass parents who respect each other. We co-parent and are true roommates. It’s hard for single people to understand this arrangement so I wanted to post here.

I crave a real connection. Anything less than wanting to build a deep connection to see where it goes will irritate me. I prefer a slow burn that builds naturally. I don’t feel comfortable with many people to open up as much. So if we feel each other, let’s hopefully get there with the intentions of not being another surface level connection. I am opened to most time zones. The connection is the most important thing.