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Whenever I go through a mental sketch of the ideal woman I'd like to connect with, I quickly pivot to thinking "no, there can't be anyone out there like this, you're asking for something too rare."
So I give up hope and move on with my day. But today I'm taking the opposite approach. I'm throwing the hail mary pass.
Real life is hard...and I mean REALLY hard. Quite often, life circumstances make it hard to just get through a day. So finding someone with a sense of empathy is key. Perhaps somebody with their own real life pain who finds value in commiserating.
Because real life responsibilities place such a heavy weight, I've come here seeking some escapism. I want to build a space and an identity separate from all those stresses.
I will also be up front in saying that sexual exploration is a key part of that escape, so finding a woman who is extremely open minded and exploratory would be amazing. I guess a part of me has come to see sexual exploration as a vehicle by which I can separate from emotional pain, if only for a while. Maybe that's not the healthiest mindset, but at least it's sincere.
This is not to suggest that I'm looking for a connection that's exclusively sexual. I'd love nothing more than a deep, warm friendship that could be a source of support for both of us.
A few other miscellaneous tidbits about me: thin, blonde, face skinned, reasonably fit, educated and professional. Lover of books and movies and travel.
If you'd like to drop me a line and see if we connect, I'd be delighted to hear from you.
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