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I know someone in a seemingly stable relationship. They have two kids, a dog, a home, 2 cars, and go to Mexico every year for a week. Money isn’t a problem and they smile and wave when I drive by. Yet, the husband told me last week they haven’t had sex in 2 years and he’s wondering what on earth he’s doing with his life.
Don’t be them. Get some therapy. Go to counseling. Separate. Divorce. Go find your happy. Life is too damn short. If those options aren’t available, don’t let anything stop you from being happy. Sometimes there are situations that are entirely out of your control and finding other ways to be happy are the only alternatives. Honestly, I’m not here to judge how you find your happy, but do it and don’t wait: time is not on your side.
Your partner is likely submissive or sexually incompatible. He’s a good guy and great with the kids but he’s never scratched that itch. You crave excitement, mystery, affectionate dominance, and maybe even a little naughty. Maybe you’ve tasted the forbidden fruit already. Maybe you’re looking to try something small and see if it’s for you. But this is true: you’re ready.
Decent looking. Employed. Lots of hobbies. Loves to write, travel, banter, and peel your layers back one by one. I’ve explored these dynamics in the past and genuinely looking for a woman wanting a steady, exciting dominant to enter her life. 50 Shades? Sure, why not. Let’s start with getting to know each other first.
EST timezone. Pretty flexible for time. Tell me what career you wanted to pursue if you weren’t doing what you are now.
Happy Holidays.
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