Seriously - can we just actually try and fall for each other?

I'm not looking for a sexting partner or looking to form connections with every woman. Just looking for a deep and long term connection and for the one to call mine. I'm one of those hopeless romantics. Like does anyone else look at the moon and wonder if your person is also doing the same?

I'm looking to form the type of connection where we obsess over each other. Where we become not just lovers, but friends, confidants, the source of discreet happiness that's only ours to share. Understanding that we will only be APs but still able to fall for each other within that realm. I want the daily conversations, the voice chats, pictures...all that. I have time, not just during work hours, evenings and weekends too. I will put effort. If this resonates with you at all well keep reading so I can tell you more about myself

Me: I'm 35, live in CA (Central Valley Area) I'm 6'0 tall, 185 lb. Dark black hair, trim beard. I'm a foodie like to cook and find yummy restaurants. I'm nerdy - obscure documentaries, tech , gaming. Enjoy travel and the outdoors. Like to laugh and make others laugh. Dad of kids and cats. And a whole lot more that I'd be happy to discuss as we get to know each other.

You: Close to my age, not older than 41. Married, HWP. Have passions and interests, smart. Enjoy good banter and flirting. You are willing to try and put effort. A girly girl. A telegram user. Live in PST/MST timezones. Willing to meet. Bonus points if you have nerdy tendencies.

So if you're looking for the one that you'll actually want to stay with long term reach out. I'll bring the effort and keep up with your energy. Can't wait to hear from you!