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Charles Eames once said, “Take your pleasures seriously”, so in an attempt to focus on what I want and need instead of accommodating others, I decided to write this post.
In the past, pointing out what I was looking for has only lead to men telling me what they figured I wanted to hear. So maybe, even though it might be perceived as unreasonably demanding by some, it is more effective to do it the other way around and state what I do not want:
- a 9-5 work hubby who is only available during work hours and has to disappear as soon as he gets within 100 m of home or someone who is never available for a proper conversation for other reasons
- somebody with an open phone policy with his SO. That’s a disaster waiting to happen
- dishonesty. I know, the irony. But I am taking a risk with you here. I need to be able to trust you
- someone who has not yet figured out what he is looking for
- erratic communication patterns
- Snapchat and Discord. Come on, be an adult…
- to be treated like a free adult content provider
- a cake eater. If you are still regularly intimate with your SO please don’t bother
- someone who does not look after himself
If you can confidently say that you do not tick any of the above boxes, this
- 43 year old
- 165cm short
- brown haired and eyed woman
- objectively attractive
- in good shape
- located in central Europe (GMT 1)
- in a long term relationship that has lost all its spark and intimacy
might just be happy to get a message or chat invite from you telling me a bit about you, what specifically you are looking for, and what your availability looks like. 🙂
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