I guess the first place to start is telling you a little about me, I’m 37, M, CST, married, kids, blue collar (so I work with my hands and every day is a little different), big beard, full head of hair, all my teeth except for the wisdom (so I guess I’m a little less wise), got a bit of a gut but I carry it well. Overall I look like any other Midwest dad, but I’m working on myself and trying to take care of it.

I’m passionate on a number of topics, especially when it’s something I’ve hyper focused on. I can and will talk about anything and everything, and I’m not afraid to send a double message but once I notice that I’m the only one asking questions or if I start to feel like you’re not interested I can get a little quiet.

I’ve done this a few times and have had some luck, but nothing seems to stick for more than a month or two. I’m not afraid of big feelings, but at the same time I don’t want to leave my situation. So I’m not always available but will try for the right person to make sure I have time for them as well.

I mean we’re all here for a reason, we feel like we’re missing something and don’t know where to find it. I’ve tried at the bottom of a bottle and in oh so many different hobbies, but I want that connection. I want that person that I smile because I know the message on my phone is for me, that I can share everything with, how my day is along with hearing about all the day to day for you, hell tell me about the bitch at work that has been getting under your skin.

If I’ve caught your attention what is something your ideal OAP will do that will make you smile?

I hope to hear from you.