curiosity8338 is a male age 39 looking for a female

   Looking for a Longshot. A woman in a similar situation as me with intintellect and thirst for learning. I've been with my wife since we were 15 and we have an active young boy. Unfortunately, she has become less interested in having a sexual relationship in the last several years. Meanwhile, my sex drive is very much high, hence the spice I'm craving. I'm not the type looking to cheat with some bimbo for meaningless sex, I crave more than that. 
   I'm an average looking guy in decent shape, very active, a workaholic, self-employed with my own business, a volunteer firefighter currently studying to become an EMT, a jack-of-all-trades kind of man. I have a very naughty side, sarcastic, not easily offended and can carry an intelligent conversation. I love the outdoors and split my time from working on the coast and on a lake in Northern Maine. 
  I'm not looking for a barbie doll, just someone real with a great sense of humor and a naughty side. Like I said, I know this is a Longshot but hopefully there's a match out there. If I'm gonna put in the time I want it to be something with meaning and excitement. Not looking to change my situation or anyone else's. Hopefully this post isn't a wasted effort but you only miss the chances you never take. If anyone has any interest in knowing more please don't be afraid to ask, I don't bite, we'll not hard at least 😉