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48[M4F] Struggling to find joy #DC #DMV
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WrongWayOnTheBeltway is a male age 48 looking for a female in District of Columbia
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Lately, I’ve been feeling more overwhelmed than I ever thought possible. I don’t often open up like this, but I need to get it off my chest. I’m struggling, and it feels like there’s no space for me to breathe, let alone find joy.

At home, I feel like I’m carrying so much of the emotional and mental load. My wife doesn’t offer the kind of emotional or physical support I desperately need. It’s like we’re on completely different wavelengths. The household feels chaotic—there’s no structure or discipline, and the kids are constantly pushing boundaries. I try to step in and manage things, but I often feel like I’m fighting a losing battle alone.

It’s hard not to miss the life I had before all this. Back then, I felt free—free to dream, laugh, and just be. These days, those feelings seem like distant memories. I love my family, but I can’t help but wonder if I’ve lost myself in the chaos.

I’m not asking for much. I just want a small corner of joy, a place where I can feel seen and understood again. Maybe even someone to commiserate with—someone who gets what it feels like to carry this kind of weight.

If you’ve ever felt this way, I’d really like to hear from you. Maybe we can find some solace in sharing our stories, even just for a little while.

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