This might go in many different ways, but there is really one way to really find out about it. So, let’s jump.

I am a partnered woman in my 30s, generally satisfied with my life. However, for a while now, an idea has been brewing in my mind, one that experiments with dom/sub dynamics.

I have been in control most of my life - I have a successful career, have seen a lot of the world, and find my work meaningful. I often take myself and a book to dinner and a movie, am not afraid to venture anything on my own, and have been called intimidating by many. Yet, a strong side of me wants to relinquish control of many aspects of my life - including sexual exploration - to someone who knows how to do that for both our pleasures and connection. I want you to push me further in many aspects, and I’ll find joy in pleasuring you.

I live in Central Europe and would like for you to be in the same or similar timezone. I am sure there are fantastic people across the globe, but for this to work I want our schedules to be somewhat in sync. I am athletic (many sports, mostly combat), and consider myself and am considered by others unrelated to me as attractive. We’ll get along if you are good mannered, assertive but not cocky, and can hold a good conversation without thinking you are too special.

I am happy to discuss details when we talk as I appreciate my privacy and will always respect yours, but know that I am athletic, and like my features. I need to be attracted to you and admire you at the same time - intellectually - for me to fully submit, so I’d love us to discuss our everyday interests to see how we click. Cultures, cinema, literature, travels, but also not taking life too seriously.

I have many sexual interests, and I’ll be happy to discuss them with the right partner provided we connect, and see a potential that is just beyond the immediate superficial. I want to play with total submission, but I will only ever give to someone who shows me they can take it.