I survived the holiday weekend and although the house is a mess I am here wishing I had someone to keep me company.

I'm 33, married with kids, not my first time here and not one of those 9-5 men that seems to be so common. Some of my favorite things to do are cooking, travel, kayaking, football, Netflix (maybe we can find something to watch together?) and just about anything outdoors. I enjoy a conversation that naturally flows from one day into the next.

I'm missing the intimate connection in my everyday life, feeling wanted by someone else but have the confidence to put myself out there. I don't expect it to be immediate but I want that sexual chemistry with someone where we are not afraid to share our fantasies and desires.

What I'm looking for.... YOU!! I want you as you are naturally and not have to change to fit into someone else's picture. Let's chat about anything and everything, make each other laugh and have those silly inside jokes. Be sharp, witty and sarcastic with me, I prefer someone who can hold their own.

Will you be that person who wants to be vulnerable and willing to be pushed past their comfort zone with opening up? I want to know all about you, your quirks, what makes you smile and what gets under your skin. You will get that everyday attention from me along with good morning and good night texts that we both so desperately want.

I feel like we can get more out of this than just just everyday attention. Are you willing to challenge me to be a better version of myself? Don't be afraid to call me out on something. Be my partner that values mutual respect through all this.

I have so much to offer the right person and just neer someone to take that chance with me. If you've read this far please send me a chat and tell me one of your pet peeves.