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As a middle-aged university professor, I’ve come to understand the quiet power of connection—and how sex has been a defining part of that. Over the years, I’ve had a handful of affairs that weren’t just about the physical; they were about chemistry, intensity, and the unspoken understanding that comes when two people truly click. Each one brought something different—new energy, new passion, new ways of seeing myself and my desires. Those moments weren’t just indulgences; they’ve shaped how I experience intimacy and the deep satisfaction that comes with being wanted and understood.
Now, as I reflect on where I’ve been and what I want next, I’m looking for someone who craves that same raw, electric honesty. Someone who’s unafraid to explore the messy, thrilling side of sex and connection, who values the kind of chemistry that leaves you breathless, and who understands that judgment has no place in moments that real. Life’s too short for anything less.
To give you a bit more context, I’m a 45-year-old man with salt-and-pepper hair, blue eyes. I’m drawn to those who are more in line with my stage in life, someone who can relate to the complexities that come with time and experience.
Now that you know a little more about me, I’d love to hear about you. What’s your story?
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