I’m looking for that elusive spark with someone, and I have a good idea whom I would likely have it with, so I’m going to describe that person. You’ll also learn about me and my values in the process.

You’re intelligent and analytical. Having a mental connection with someone is important to you.

You like asking questions. I’m curious and inquisitive by nature, and it would be ideal for you to be similar in that regard. I’m also fairly introspective and enjoy having those kinds of conversations. It would be great if you didn’t mind opening up about the deeper sides of yourself.

You’re open-minded about almost everything. You rarely see things in black/white and acknowledge that we probably don’t know much about anything. You’re compassionate to those who have likely had a harder time in life than you.

You might have a dead bedroom, but you are not primarily looking for sexual exchanges. You’re mainly looking for a mental and emotional connection. It would be nice to progress to sexual exchanges after a strong connection is formed.

You initiative some of the conversations, and I initiate some of the conversations. It’s a mutual exchange. You are understanding when I cannot talk, due to life circumstances, and I am equally respectful of your time limitations. Ideally, we would chat throughout the week and on weekends, when possible. I’m not looking for someone who can only chat while at work.

I don't want to change my situation, and neither do you. We will be careful and take precautions to prevent getting caught. You will respect my privacy and will understand that I will not share many identifying details about myself initially. At the same time, ideally we will exchange pics within a few days of talking to ensure mutual attraction.

As far as time zones go CST, and EST work well for me. I enjoy voice chatting if our schedules are similar.

If you read through this lengthy post, and it felt like I was describing you, I would like to get to know you. If you would like to get to know me, send me a DM or a chat. Please put some thought into your response, so I can get a good idea of who you are. Include how you would describe yourself physically.

And since I asked, it’s only fair for me to tell you about how I’d describe myself physically: tall, husky, white, shaved head, trimmed reddish beard, blue eyes