Hey there! I’m a 35-year-old with no kids based in Texas, navigating something new in my life. I’m currently in a relationship with someone who is poly and part of the swinger lifestyle. This is a big shift for me, as I’ve only been in monogamous relationships before. I’ll be honest – I’m not entirely sure what I’m looking for just yet. Maybe this is my way of dipping my toe into the world of non-monogamy? I'm happy in my relationship, but I know something is missing, and I’m hoping someone here can help fill that space.

I’m open to exploring new connections, whether they’re just friends, potential partners, or something else entirely. I’m not in a rush and value building genuine, organic connections. If you’re someone who enjoys thoughtful conversations and takes their time, we’re already off to a good start.

A bit more about me:

-- Physical: I’m 6’2”, white, with salt-and-pepper hair and a beard. Think “huggable teddy bear” vibes – someone who’s cozy, warm, and enjoys providing comfort.
-- Health Journey: Over the last 19 months, I’ve lost 105 pounds and am still on a fitness journey. If you’re into fitness or need someone to motivate you along the way, I’d love to connect and be that accountability buddy.
-- Personality: I'm definitely an introvert and very shy, but if you are someone I'm truly compatible with, my defenses fall pretty easily and you can get to the real "me".
-- Interests & Hobbies: I’m a nerd through and through. I have a degree in Computer Science, and I love diving deep into anything related to Star Trek, DC Comics, and movies in general. I'm also planning a trip to Italy next summer, so I'm trying to learn Italian (enough to at least order some pasta and not get lost in a foreign country). I also love sports, and want to get back into playing basketball and racquetball. You don’t have to be a fellow nerd, but I’d love to connect with someone who’s passionate about something, whether it’s books, sports, gaming, or anything else that sparks joy in your life. I'm not big into horror movies or anime, but if you are, I would love to hear all about it.

I want to take my time in building connections, so if you’re someone who enjoys a slower, more thoughtful approach, we’ll probably get along well. While I’m exploring ENM, I’m also just exploring myself in a lot of ways.

If you decide to send me a message, please make it more than just a simple "Hi." I want to hear about you – your favorite hobby, your dream travel destination, or just what’s been on your mind lately.

Looking forward to hearing from you!