Hello!

Are you someone who wonders if there are people on these subreddits who are - 1. Genuine 2. Looking for more than a fleeting conversation 3. People who are articulate and can hold a conversation that’s not reliant on just discussing body parts? Well, that makes at least two of us.

This week, I seek to find that connection with someone on here, an individual who’s willing to spend the time to get to know the person behind the other screen (at least initially). I find it hard to be turned on about someone and enjoy being naughty if you can’t make it specific or personal. I’ve realized investments reap rewards and, I’m willing to hedge my bets - if you are as well. I’m an engineer who builds things for a living and this requires patience, effort and an eye for detail, all valuable skills in finding that right individual. Also, facets in the a partner that makes any experience.. rewarding.

About me: I’m 5’11, fit (into long distance running), dark haired and from an ethnically mixed background. I have a PhD in engineering and my thesis involved designing more efficient airplane engines because, let’s be honest - nobody likes a middle seat. I’m interested in all things science and design. I love learning about history and the arts. Cinema and TV are so much more than just catharsis to me and literature helps me escape from the mundane realities of life. My kinks are wide ranging and currently centered around being a pleasure dom and all things ass. I am open to the idea of being a switch, but with the right partner. Ask me about my limits, they’re easier to define.

I’m hoping to meet a woman who’s open minded, likes to explore and motivated in investing the time and effort it takes to build a truly fulfilling sensual experience. I’d love to be able to get to know you and be available whenever you have that craving, wherever it may be. I’m happy to answer questions about my current situation - but have no interest in changing yours (unless you want to and we both are into it). Women of all forms, welcome! I pay attention to my health, and I request you do as well - taking care of yourself and being active are non-negotiable. Messages with what resonated with you, will likely elicit a quicker reply.

Apologies for the rambling post, but the devil lies in the details. If any of this resonates with you - send me a chat!