I’m waiting for you. Yeah, you. Something brings you here. Maybe like me, you’re married, but feel unseen. You can’t really be the real you, and you’re looking for someone you don’t have to hide anything from. Or maybe you’re here for a totally different reason.

I think we meet the people we need, when we need them. Some stay a while, others don’t, but there’s always a reason for everything. I want to meet you here, to find our spot. To be able to go beyond the basics, and really know each other. I want someone able to be vulnerable, with time. To go beyond the masks, and hard exterior.

I am confident in who I am. I have a career I love. I’m married, but things haven’t functioned as they should for a long time. I’m also a very hands on parent.

I am gentle but have a dominant side, which often feels like a contradiction, but I’m not looking for a dynamic. I’m a sucker for a Hallmark movie, I’ll read anything, I’m a sports fan but not a meathead. I played football to a high level, but am more average built now.

I’m black and nearly 6’2. I’m cute to the right person. I like chubby, curvy, BBW women, but personality is far more important to me than looks. Kindness. I’m looking for online but if we click, I’m not against meeting if the feelings get there. I’m in the UK but can travel anywhere, even the US, just not super frequently. I love voice calls, voice notes, doing stuff together, 21 questions. Teasing. Fun.

If you do respond, please give me something I can reply to. I can struggle with knowing what to say when you message. I’m a great conversationalist and super curious. I love to laugh. But that second message can be tricky.

So, will you meet me at our spot?