To preface- not looking to leave my spouse. I think my availability is important to mention too...it's easiest for me to chat evenings/nights and weekends. Though I do like the good morning texts. Ideally looking for one person to connect with- which when that happens, I am more responsive during the day.

I want to video and voice chat. I'm a sucker for the way a man looks at me. Even if it's during that five minute run to the grocery store.

While texting and sharing photos is important, it's so..surface. I want my sexy best friend. Sharing the mundane and sexy. The person I can be myself around.

I know what I want, and I want the man worth it. Attraction, attention, chemistry. The person I think about when I wake up, and fall asleep trying to talk to.

I want to make you happy, and know I'm doing a good job at it. I also want those little things that make me happy. I am traditionally attracted to men on the selfish side sexually, but like to be emotionally spoiled. If that makes sense haha.

I don't want it to be forever online, eventually I'll need to be in your arms. I can wait until we are both ready though.

The musts:

Attraction is important- I will not waste your time if I don't feel it. I like men who work out (I love gym pics), no big beards, traditionally attractive, hair. Someone with good intentions (as good as they get on here) and initative. Between 28 and 44. I don't like being left on read or made to feel like bootycall, if you leave on read regularly, I won't waste my time.

I'm mom next door cute. Brunette, 5'3, curves with no rolls. Thick thighs with pretty eyes. I enjoy working out when I can. Hiking. Gardening. Mostly I love being a mom. I just miss those butterflies. Being seen beyond a mom and wife, but as a women. I'm looking for the man who brings that out in me. Someone I can make happy and they reciprocate that. I want to feel safe to be vulnerable and affectionate, put my energy towards one person who is worth it.

Anyways, start by telling me what you're attracted to and how you make something like this works.