So here I am, stepping into this little corner of the internet with my heart on my sleeve and my fingers crossed, ready to find someone special. This is my first post here, so let’s hope it lands somewhere between charmingly real and refreshingly honest rather than “weird dude figuring things out.”

[This is going to be a long one, hope you’ll handle it !]

About me:

I’m 33, living in Canada (EST), but originally from France. French is therefore my first language, so while I can hold my own in English (listening and writing especially), my spoken English might sometimes sound like a linguistic boss battle. I promise I’m trying, though, and I hope my accent adds a little charm and makes me more endearing than awkward.

I’ve been in a committed relationship for 12 years. I’m not looking to change that, but I can’t deny I miss the kind of connection that makes your heart skip a beat when you see that special someone’s name light up your screen. Emotional intimacy, shared excitement, a spark that’s just ours...I’m hoping to find that here in the form of an ONLINE relationship: a friendship that blossoms into something romantic, meaningful, and long-term.

What I’m looking for:

I’m searching for someone special. Someone who’s funny, kind, and emotionally available. Someone who gets that real connection takes time but is absolutely worth the effort. Someone who knows what it means to have a deep connection and is willing to explore it, step by step. If you’re a gamer, you’ll get me on a whole different level.

Here’s my ideal match:

· Gamer girl vibes (MASSIVE bonus points)– Whether you play casually, are hardcore, or at the very least understand why games light up my world, I’d love to bond over that and share that with you. Gaming doesn’t have to define us, but it’s a great place to start. 

· Funny, smart and down to earth - I love a woman who can laugh at life’s absurdities, banter like a pro, and isn’t afraid to share her quirks. If you’re a little nerdy or have a sharp wit, we’ll get along just fine. Let’s share dumb jokes, send memes, and laugh about how ridiculous life can be.

· Emotionally available - I want someone who’s open, genuine, and willing to share her heart as much as her thoughts. If you’ve got walls, that’s okay—I’m patient enough to climb them with you as long as you’re willing to let it happen.

· Bold and honest - You know what you want, and you’re not afraid to say it. Whether it’s calling me out for a bad joke or telling me about your dreams, I value honesty and boldness in a woman who doesn’t shy away from taking the lead now and then.

· Exclusivity - I’m not here to spread my attention around, and I’d hope you feel the same. If we click, I want us to build something uniquely ours. 

· Comfortable with chemistry - I lean towards dominant, but I love a partnership where we can both take the lead when it feels right. I’m very sexual, but only when it’s tied to real feelings and trust. Never rushed or forced—it’ll be natural and mutual.

· Bonus points if you’re between roughly 25-40 years old ! Even MORE bonus points if you can speak French !

What I’m NOT looking for:

· Pictures or anything physical upfront - This isn’t about fishing for photos (especially NSFW) or instant gratification. If that’s something we both feel comfortable with down the road, great—but let’s not force it. However, be open to the idea of us exchanging some form of verification pics at some point, so we both know neither of us is pretending to be what we aren’t.

· Casual flings - If you’re looking for something fleeting or shallow, we’re probably not a match.

· Drama - This should be a source of joy and excitement in both our lives, not stress or complications.

· You don’t have to be physically perfect - I’m definitely not. Ideally, you’re charming and comfortable with yourself to some extent.

What I bring to the table:

I’m kind, patient, and in no rush to make this happen overnight. If it takes time for us to find our rhythm, I’m here for it. Building something real and lasting matters more to me than quick results..

I’m a hopeless romantic who thrives on the little things. I believe in the beauty of small moments—whether it’s a thoughtful message, an unexpected laugh, or the comfort of knowing someone gets you. When I care about someone, I give my all. You’ll never feel like an afterthought because I’ll make sure you know just how special you are to me.

Physically, I’m not at my best right now, but I’m working on it. I know from experience that being emotionally connected to someone motivates me to show up as my best self. Will you be my muse ? :D

And while gaming is a big part of my life, it’s not the only part. It’s just one of many ways I’d love to connect with you—through shared passions, banter, and maybe even some inside jokes that’ll make us. I want us to connect on everything that makes us who we are.

The practical stuff:

Discretion is a must. My availability during evenings and weekends is limited—not because I wouldn’t want to be with you, quite the opposite... but because life doesn’t leave me much choice. Ideally, you’re in EST, CST, or GMT time zones so we can chat without battling a time zone boss. Discord would be our main hub, and I’d be open to voice chats when it feels right but no rush.

In other words, I’m looking for a spark. For someone who makes my day better just by being part of it. I want a connection that’s exciting, meaningful, and uniquely ours—something that grows naturally over time and becomes a source of joy for both of us. 

If this sounds like the kind of adventure you’re ready to start, send me a message or reddit chat invite. I may not be a woman but I still expect some effort, so make me feel like you’ve read it all and don’t shy away from showing yourself as being THE Girl. I don’t know if you exist or will ever be real, but if you do, make me notice it and I definitely WILL answer ! ♥