I have been on and off reddit for the last year but it's been over a year since I last dipped my toes in the OA pool. I know it's overwhelmingly not in my favor but here goes nothing. Just another lonely married man in a dead bedroom marriage and living that roommate lifestyle. So I am looking for someone to get to know and rekindle that fire and butterflies that come with it. I'm not looking to sext until we are both comfortable and share those feelings. I want to trade pics soon so we don't waste time. While I know I am looking for that emotional connection, there also has to be a physical one too. Just to give a brief description I am 6'1" with a dad bod that I am working on sliming down with the help of wonder shots and exercise. I am quite excited for this new journey and discovery of myself. I am of Hispanic background but totally look Caucasian. I love to have great intellectual debates about all kinds of topics. I also love music as well. Like a onion I have many layers of me to learn about. Think that comes from a movie lol. Movies quotes are also a lot of fun.

As for what I'm looking for in a OA partner, just a woman that wants something deep and longterm. I don't care if you are fit or plus size (plus size to the front of the line) I won't really be basing this all off of looks. It's about the connection we will create. That is what drives me to find something more than what I have. Fear not though, I am not looking for an exit or to change your situation or mine. I just want to add to and enrich both of our lives. I am also not in a rush to meet but could happen if things line up right.

Thanks for taking the time to read this. I really appreciate it. Hopefully you are in my time zone or within reason, if you are EST i wouod still be interested to chat with you. If you made it this far and any of this peaked your interest you should say hello. If you do say hello tell me a bit about you and what you are looking for in a OA partner.