I love autumn, it is the best season and I will die on this hill. Although Bert is currently ruining my vibe! But I love those crisp mornings, the kaleidoscopic sunrises and sunsets, the warm colours of the leaves on the trees, a gingerbread latte, digging out my knitwear collection. I love to feel cosy and warm, but this year I'm feeling lonelier than ever, hence the post.

I'm looking for someone to share life with, to laugh with and to feel that sense of connection. Someone to be obsessed with, to eagerly chat to, share photos, stories, and a sprinkling of naughtiness in due course.

This will be a predominantly online thing, I'm not saying no to something IRL but my life is hectic and logistics would be challenging at best right now, but it would be a lovely thing to aspire to.

The important paragraph: ME!!!! I mean the very basic clichéd paragraph about connection etc. is fine, but you need to know about me. I guess slightly nerdy, wholesome dad is the vibe I'm giving off. Like I might talk your ears off about the spreadsheet I just built. I'm 6 foot tall or close enough with some casual rounding. The build of someone who does a reasonable amount of exercise, eats a pretty balanced diet but will smash a Greggs into my face when required. I have quite a shy and reserved personality type, but will come alive with the right person.

Ideally I'm looking for someone within a sensible age range of mine, talkative, with a sense of humour. Looks wise I lean towards curvier women, it's just my type. Personality will always win out though. Finally, I have done this sort of thing before, but I've changed my viewpoint considerably. Prior affairs have been focused on the in-person aspect and I'm not in that headspace right now. I'm looking for company and for friendship predominantly, yes the sexual side will be an aspect, but for me right now the connection is what I'm missing the most.

I would love to hear from you. It's a lazy Sunday today so replies should be pretty easy to come by, but I'm generally very available.