We're all here in this lifestyle for one reason or another. I avoided making a longer post for a while because most aren’t probably reading but decided might as well give you a nice read while you’re sipping on coffee or insert alcohol of choice depending on how your day is going.

Anyways, I like to make things simple, sweet, and to the point. I'm looking for a best friend I suppose? with benefits? I want the flirty, the fun, the great chit chat that we both want to be involved instead of just one person trying all the time to keep the discussion alive , and deep down we're driving each other wild in a good way. I want to be more excited to talk to you than anyone else. I'm not in some absolutely miserable relationship, it isn't a totally dead bedroom, and I'm not here to lead anyone on. I'm here because like most of you here, something is missing, and I'm trying to find it.

I'm a guy who's in shape as my health and fitness is important to me and I'd appreciate if you're active/also into the gym/at least in a similar place. I like to game with the fellas a decent bit when not working or wrapped up in the other life, social drinks with friends, spending too much time on the main reddit account or the internet in general, big sports fan, etc. I'm a fun, intelligent, and chill guy just trying to enjoy life. With the right person obviously I have a dirty side, maybe if it all lines up correctly, we can have that type of fun.

I'm not terribly picky about where you are, etc. but know that I work odd hours a lot of the time so I'm up late a lot so if you're not on the east coast or somewhere close-ish, our schedules may not line up correctly. I don't know if we ever meet, definitely open to it though.

Finally, I plan to move to telegram, something else early on and exchange photos so we can see if we're attracted to each other, regardless your and my privacy is important to me and hopefully to you as well, we all know what we're doing here so I think that's fair that we don't wanna get caught. I don't want to change your situation and I have no plans to change mine.

I think I laid it all out nicely, and for fuck sake, don't expect me to be the only to continue conversation, I can't do too much with one or two word answers every reply.