You know that easy back and forth where you don't have to force it? That.... THAT is what I'm looking for.

As a brief "about me" goes, my posts generally fall into two different camps: first, the "I need banter, wit and get to know" and/or second, a really primal sometimes dark need for mutual sensual, erotic, kink, exploring and who knows what else. Both are important aren't they? I think so, and my match ought to think so as well. Which brings me to a deeper thought (see below).

I get why people post a list of, "I want this and that", but I don't limit the posts to those lists. You dear reader, may have an interest I would have never considered but appeals to me, and vice versa. I like broader based interactions, and lists aren't conducive to that. Sure, we all have things we want/need, for example I'm very much a fan of light quick easy chats, sports, esoteric pursuits, attraction (obviously), rapport, voice calls (actually a must... I really love them) and, and, and (so much for not including a list - so much for no lists) ......... but to get there, you have to have some connection. Can I describe how or why a connection happens - no, I cannot. I'm a realist, I don't think you can have rapport with everyone. I do think most people are lovely, but sometimes things are forced or don't flow or aren't ......... easy.

With a challenging day to day life, don't you just want this thing, this, whatever you call it, to be easy? Wanna know what makes things easy in my world? Well, no pretense. I just cannot handle it. Be you. Simple, if there a connection great, if not, that's okay too, but dear lord, lower the guard, be vulnerable, chat like the person is a person and not a thing to get a handle on. When you're "you" that's where the "magic happens" (ugh, I just cringed at saying "where the magic happens. Bad me, bad bad bad me. )

Rambling posts are my thing because (I'm obviously a narcissist and like to see myself "speak") that's how chats usually go, back and forth easy and veering into different topics. I like those chats, and voice calls etc. That's how you get to know a person, the real person. Anyway...enough of this, those of you who get it, smirk and are thinking.. yeah I'm going to send a message- send that message (chats are fine). Those of you who are just rolling your eyes thinking this guy is.... this or that... form a line to the left and my apologies for wasting the past 2 minutes of your life. Looking forward to hearing from the former and have a great day to both camps!

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