Hey, so I'm posting in online affairs, but I'm hoping to meet someone who is at least open to the idea of meeting and has the ability to. I live in Minnesota, but often travel to California...maybe you are around those places? Or if you travel for work you'd go right to the top!

It's so hard to know where to start with these. I've been married 20 years and if you have been with somebody that long reality starts to set in. Call it a midlife crisis, but I'm not sure I want to not experience more of life before time catches up. I'm a pretty decent looking guy and I have a lot of interests. It's pretty likely we can find something we have in common. I'm not totally sure of what I'm truly looking for on here. I've done this a few times now and I've had good experiences with a broad spectrum of different relationship dynamics and people.

What I want more than anything is somebody who wants to develop something where all of this comes effortlessly. Phone calls, late night chats, early morning hellos...not too much pressure. Life will get in the way, but through it all we still have each other in the background.