Coming up with an eye-catching title and a post that details what you're looking for while describing yourself and what you want in a partner without making people fall asleep or think you're nuts is harder than it sounds. But I'll try anyway.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for that special someone. We all know that person. The one that makes you check your phone constantly, smile like crazy when you see a message from them. The one who makes you feel like a pair of teenagers telling each other to hang up first. The one who sends you good morning or good night messages. Who makes you feel like the best version of yourself. And sneaks off even though they are busy to send you a quick flirty message for no reason other than to make you smile.

About Me: I'm 42, married with kids, from EST, in a roommate/co-parenting situation. I'm missing the romance and the intimacy in my relationship. I'm 5'11, dark hair and eyes, dadbod but my best features are my shoulders and chest, reasonably handsome, well-read in a variety of subjects, somewhat nerdy. I'm pretty shy and introverted in person. I'm also very romantic, caring and sweet. My interests include reading, cooking, movies, classic rock, history, and traveling. I'm also open to moving platforms once we get to know each other. Not looking to change either situation.

About You: Intelligent, funny, caring, open, honest(yes the irony makes me laugh too), have the time to devote to this, can hold a conversation, send more than one word answers, not afraid of catching feelings, not looking for a sugar daddy or to jump into sexting immediately. Have done this before. All body types welcome because if I like who you are inside I guarantee I'll like the outside. Oh yes the most important quality, has the maturity to be able to communicate like an adult and doesn't ghost. And not someone who couldn't be bothered to read the whole post.

I hate conversations that make it feel like I'm interviewing you for a job. Let's have some fun talking and getting to know each other. I can't wait to get to know you.