I think everyone here knows that women tend to get so many messages. It’s very difficult to know which first message to respond to and which to invest more time into. So, I’m going to make some outlandish requirements of my AP and hope that not only it limits the messages but increases the quality of them. Now, if you don’t meet these requirements I’m sure you’re very lovely. This literally has nothing to do with you but with my preferences based on what I need and what’s missing in my marriage.

Requirements: - You’re very handsome. You would rate yourself above an 8 - You are not bald - You keep yourself relatively fit - You are happy with your marriage for the most part and not looking to change that - You are able to invest time and energy into this pretty consistently - You are emotionally intelligent - You can be dominant - You are able to meet in person if this works out - You can hold a conversation (actually shocked by how many men on here can’t) - You don’t need anyone to “save” you - You see yourself as a prize, love confidence! - You are in US or Canada - You are between 35-45

Did I feel a bit shallow writing all of that down? Yes I did. But while I know I am not for everyone, not all of you are for me and I want to find my man.

About me: I am 33, married, no kids with two pups. I am very career driven. Travel a ton for work so my time zone varies. I love being my best version in all aspects of my life. I invest into my physical health (OTF and F45), mental health (I am my therapists favorite) and my appearance (my self care budget is pretty high). I consider myself conventionally attractive. I had my glow up in my late 20’s. I protect my peace at all costs. That means I’m selective on who I spend any energy on. I like to just have a wonderful time as frequent as possible. I think I’m the funniest person. I can be deep but also have lots of fun. I’m ready to be the best AO, with the man that’s perfect for me.

Again, please do not message me if you do not meet all the requirements. Best of luck!