About me: I am 44, married with kids. INTJ. I work out a lot, running and weightlifting. I love being outdoors. I am flirty. I am both mechanical and handy and enjoy tinkering on things or fixing things. I have an insatiable thirst to keep learning things. Youtube and podcasts feed me with new knowledge in my spare time. Physically I am 5'10 and pretty fit. I have short dark hard, blue eyes, and normally a short scruffy beard (which is somehow red). I am kink friendly and will not judge! Our relationship doesnt have to be kinky at all, but if you hesitate to find the right person because you have such-and-such kink--give me a try? If you have done your due diligence, you may have noticed that this username doesnt have much post history. I can share my active name in DM if you want to creep that post history (I'll warn you ahead of time there is nothing juicy in it--certainly no nudes). I will also provide SFW pics.

What I am looking for: Someone to talk to every day. To be my person. To be special to someone and to be blessed with someone special in return. If we were close enough, meeting IRL would be on the table, but not required. Though I would expect some sexy convo (and then the time comes sexy pics back and forth), I am not looking for a sexting partner. Conversation is very important to me. I like being able to discuss anything. Deep dive in to topics with no fear of judgment or pissing someone off. Having my ideas challenged and challenging yours where we disagree. That kind of discourse is missing a lot of times but makes people better off.

About you: You should be in a similar situation to me with regards to family. We will just have more in common if you are. The closer you are to me in location the better! Your race, age and body type dont need to be anything specific. Though on body type if you are not healthy that will bother me. I dont mind where you are politically but if you are an outspoken SJW or you are trying to win the woke olympics, we will likely not be a good match. A few of the first things I like to ask are what are your OA/AP history. Im not looking for specifics, I just want a sense how new or experienced you are in all of this. If the convo goes well initially I do like to swap face pics pretty quickly, so if thats not something you want to do you need to let me know.

About us: I am not shy and dont mind sharing revealing pics, but only if they are asked for. I dont mind if things get hot and heavy quickly but burning out quickly is a risk I want to avoid. I want something longer term. I want just one special AP. I am mostly available to talk during the day and sparser in the evenings and weekends but I definitely will not just go dark on you during those times. We would constantly be thinking of each other when we werent able to talk.

So if anything I have said speaks to you or you think we would be a good match, give me a chat or DM. Looking forward to hearing from you.

Examples of what not to say in a first message to me:
*Hmmm is Oklahoma a red flag? Do you think women should have rights 😂
*This is a lot of words to just end up confused as to what you’re actually looking for! 😂😂