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Welcome to my Post,
I am 29 years old and I live in the US. In my daily life I am a physio, which I am quite passionate about, but outside of that, kink has become more and more important for me. Next to my vanilla lifestyle, I have had an interest in bdsm for the last several years, both online and in person. Besides that, I like to work out, play various sports, meeting up with friends, listening to music, hiking and travelling.
I am a strict, caring and at times very gentle Dom, because not only do I like to own and control my sub, but i care about her too. In my past experience I have had a few long-term subs, and some short-term subs.
I’m looking for someone who, in time, after trust and respect is earned, wants to serve me in the best way she can (within limits), just because she wants to make her dom happy, being turned on in the process. Of course, your limits are always respected. You will need to be able to verify yourself. I will do the same.
I would like to talk and play with you regularly, but this can be discussed. I am interested in something serious, but I am up for something casual as well, depending on your availability and needs. Besides kink, I like to have non-kink related conversations as well. A good sense of humour is quite important for me.
Communication
Communication is really, really important in a dom/sub-relationship. I really want to know what you like or don’t, and what’s going through your mind. Everything can be discussed. If you’re not comfortable about something, I wanna know about it. I will never let you do something which you are really not comfortable about or something that includes great risks (public, family, etc). Aftercare is also really important. More important for me to know is what you need in this relationship, and before, during and after sessions.
Kinks
It's important to me that our kinks (at least somewhat) match. The list below contains some of my favourite kinks. We can always discuss likes, dislikes and limits.
- Orgasm control
- Tease and denial
- (Teasing/mild) humiliation
- Praising
- Pain play
- Bondage
- Edging
- Impact play
- Nipple play
- Anal
- Choking
I prefer regular, daily contact via messaging, combined with a set of rules. On top of that, regular live sessions, depending on both our schedules, and weekly tasks. If everything goes well, I would like to meet at some point.
Besides that, outside of play time etc, I'd like to have casual chats as well! I want this dynamic not to be just about kink, but create an actual connection.
Feel free to contact me and include your height, your interests and what got you interested after reading this post. If you have any questions, let me know and I will answer them.
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