Well, I promised myself I wouldn't be back but here I am. A 51 year old married white male still looking for that elusive OA connection, that perfect blend of friendship, excitement, and passion that we all desire. To get my details out of the way, I have an athletic to hwp body depending on my workout commitment that month but I am not obsessive about working out, it just makes me feel better when I do! I'm average height, just under 6' tall, have a shaved head, beard, and some tattoos. Personality wise, I like to describe myself as a cool nerd, although some might leave the cool off! I have the stereotypical likes, hiking, biking, reading, and being outside in general, but I guess we like them because they are fun! Music is important to me, I have played guitar since my early teens and once had glorified dreams of being a rock star! I read and watch a lot of sci-fi/fantasy, I love to cook and eat, hence the working out, and I have also traveled a lot.

I have no particular type that I am looking for. I prefer to talk to women that can contribute more than a few word answers to an endless stream of questions. I can carry conversations but it is always better if it is a two way street. I have plenty of time to chat and hope to find someone in a similar situation. I also enjoy voice and video calls when possible. I do sometimes get busy with work and there will be rare times I am not available during the day, not all the time, but if that is a deal breaker then I am not a good fit. I am living in a roommate/dead bedroom situation and, while I am not looking to change anyone's situation (obligatory phrase), I am looking to add some companionship, fun and excitement back in to our lives. Yes, I do understand the concept of a slow burn, and I won't flood you with unsolicited NSFW pictures, but i do want to find a woman that wants the sexual side to develop, to explore the things we are missing at home with.

I am very much an open book, I find that is the best way to be on here. I am happy to answer any questions and also share pictures early on to make sure that physical connection is there, which still seems a little weird for an OA! I would like to move off Reddit when we are comfortable, as I really don't like Reddit chat but there is no rush. I hope you are having a great weekend and if this post resonates with you, and you made it through the novel, I really hope to hear from you.