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Hey! Long-time lurker here, dipping back into OA. Life is steady, marriage is “good enough,” kids are thriving, and the partnership is solid, but I’m feeling that familiar tug, like something’s missing. After a few years of typical OAs that eventually fizzled out, I’m ready to take a more thoughtful plunge.
About Me: I’m 5'7, olive-skinned, and fit, working in finance and strategy. I have young kids, enjoy cooking, in shape, a bit of running, and sharing the occasional story about my questionable parenting or the latest kids’ sports drama. I’m not looking to rush; I want a genuine connection that feels right, whether it takes weeks or months.
About You: Must love coffee :) fit and in shape (you don't have to workout but live a healthy lifestyle), has kids, and is an involved parent (our conversations will go stale if you are not). No awkwardness, just good conversation, shared perspectives, and, ideally, a connection that feels both refreshing and real.
Fine Print: You’re someone who has accepted that marriage isn’t always fulfilling but doesn’t carry resentment, just a sense of curiosity and openness to find moments of happiness outside it. You’re passionate about something and willing to let someone else into that world a little. Let’s keep it lighthearted, tickle each other’s minds, and share in the moments that make us feel real.
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