I’m doing something a bit different because, well, life’s short, and why not?

I’m here hoping to find someone who’s actually looking for me. So, yes, this will be long because I’m not looking for anything short—and if you’re pulled to read all of it, then we’re already off to a good start.

Here’s a bit about me:

Basics:

• I’m 6ft. Athletic. Tanned Skin. Dark hair and eyes. Have a beard most of the time.
• I’ve lived in 3 countries, which has shaped me into someone open-minded, resilient, and adaptable.
• I don’t complain about the grey weather, but I much prefer the summer.
• I adore the beach and could spend hours in the water.
• Big fan of meditation.
• Music and creativity are passions of mine.
• I’m layered, emotional, and vulnerable but also strong and never give up.
• I love cooking, dogs, hippos, cheese, and I’m a little addicted to caffeine.
• I have both an introverted, quiet side and an extroverted, high-energy side—they’re pretty well balanced!
• No kids but very much the fun uncle.
• I don’t smoke and rarely drink
• I love horror movies
• I have a vision board
• I have loads of empathy, love, and kindness to give, and I’ve learned it’s about giving and receiving equally—when it’s right, it’s a dance
• Definitely an affectionate person.

I know none of us know the future, and we can only hope for the best, but ideally, I want someone who’s open to the journey of fun, growth, and time together that, with compatibility, can bring us to that deeper connection.

What I’m Looking for in You:

• You know what you want from life
• You’re aware of both your good and not-so-good sides, and you know what kind of person you want to be with, understanding both sides of yourself.
• When conflict arises, you believe in solving it with empathy and compassion. I’m sure we’ll both be wrong sometimes, but finding middle ground and fixing things matters.
• You’re open to someone who’s honest, funny, sometimes crazy, sometimes quiet and introverted, sometimes extroverted—basically, all the layers I described and more
• You have hobbies and interests that make your eyes light up, and that you’re happy to talk about
• Resilient, kind, giving, and self-aware.
• You know who you’re looking for and aren’t afraid to love and be loved
• You’re emotionally intelligent
• You’re adventurous and curious about the world, and you enjoy exploring new places (whether it’s a nearby park or a faraway country)
• You’re thoughtful—small gestures mean a lot to me
• You’re okay with someone who’s sometimes quiet and contemplative; I need my downtime to recharge, but I also love deep conversations
• You’re patient and open-minded—you can handle quirks like my love of open windows in winter!

If you made it to the end of this novel and can relate to this, I’d love to hear from you. Just send me a message me and say hey 🙂