I am a software engineer at a video game company. My job is very challenging in many ways, and I love every second of it!

I'm here because I have a hole in my life that I may find a way to fill here. Many of us likely have the same situation. Lonely and lacking in the bedroom. I want to rediscover that joy that I lost so many years ago. The love of meeting someone new, of sharing something with them that only we have. The intensity of having a secret life that brings both of us happiness and satisfaction.

I am married with three kids. My youngest is a senior in high school, if you can believe that! I'm almost done, I suppose? My wife is very busy, so I spend most evenings alone. I spend my nights wanting and never receiving.

To paint a better physical picture, I'm caucasian, above average height, brown hair with a graying beard, and blue eyes. I've been told they are a striking color of blue, but you will have to judge. I go to the gym six days a week, and I consider myself pretty fit. I don't have the body of a Greek God, but I've been told that my legs are pretty amazing.

As for my interests, I of course enjoy video games. I love to read! Fantasy and Sci Fi mainly, but I'll mix in some thrillers every now and again. I enjoy the good TV show - always looking for suggestions. I enjoy watching baseball and football, and would love to talk smack while my team is playing your team! I tend to favor indoorsy activities, but I will go out sometimes for a bit of fresh air.

I'm looking for someone who is looking for the same things as me. Companionship, connection, and possibly more if there is mutual attraction. My goal is to connect on a deep level. I am not trying to change either of our situations. I like to talk about all kinds of things, and I love to get to know you better. I like to share pics, voice messages, and sometimes videos if the occasion calls for it. Speaking of, sexy time will come when the time is right. Sometimes that's fast, I've found, but I'm in no rush.

I have the time and energy to give you what you are looking for. Help me find what I am looking for.

If you could have dinner with anyone, alive or dead, who would it be and why?