Hi! Thanks for popping in. 

About me:
I’ve been here before. Met someone, had a wonderful 2-year relationship, and then we had to part ways. I’m in an ethically non-monogamous relationship, so my partner is aware of this. We take the approach of private but not secret, and it works well for us. However, I’m not interested in changing my relationship or yours, and so, that brings me here :)

Some of my interests include reading, exploring speciality coffee shops, the art of the perfect sandwich, going down weird rabbit holes, and channelling my competitive nature by watching too much sport (F1 is my favourite, but the list of others is fairly extensive). I get to travel fairly often (England, Switzerland, NY, and Cairo this year—it’s been a good one). I have blue eyes, am on the shorter side, and have a more mid-sized shape (I’m not really sure how we’re categorizing bodies anymore). I flourish with open communication and someone who is emotionally open and wants to build trust and a friendship alongside the fun, hedonistic stuff. I want a best friend who makes me feel good and wants to reciprocate that. No kids, two cats. Photos will be shared, and enthusiasm about their cuteness will earn you brownie points and massive smiles. I also keep a note on my phone of 70 questions and will be the person to bring it on road trips. 

About you:
Mature, able to show up and communicate. Someone who is curious and perhaps got called a "but why?" kid. Someone who isn’t going to wife-bash or speak negatively about their spouse. It’s okay to have bad days and need to express that, of course, but there’s a line, and hopefully, you can recognize that. Ideally, you have clear availability for this relationship, and it’s not just a “working hours” situation for you. Of course, we are both adults with lives to live and responsibilities, but hopefully, you know what I mean. I prefer men who are older than I am. Also, tattoos and their backstories are something I love discussing.

I am kink-friendly/curious but fairly new to it (as in, my previous AP introduced me to it, and that’s the only experience and context I have). It’s something that comes out with trust and relationship-building, and I really enjoy it, but I need to take time with it. I’m just adding it here because I find that being upfront about it and being on the same page is best.

So now that you’ve read all that, if you think there’s potential, send me a message. If you have a Reddit rabbit hole suggestion or want to share your go-to “fuck, this is good” sandwich recipe along with a bit about yourself, that goes a long way.

Also, to the guys who send unsolicited dick pics: it never works. To me, it shows you don’t understand consent and trust, so it automatically ends any type of engagement right there :)