Some of those replies I get to my past posts are quite underwhelming...and when I managed to start a conversation with somebody, that tends to fade out after there was a night's sleep.

I'm not hard to get to know or talk with. I however find there is too much introverts looking to talk, and that is a mismatch to me because I'm not an introvert. I'm straight forward, unabashed when talking, sharing and asking some questions to you and about me. All I ask is whomever wants to connect with me to be part of a decent, upbeat, fun and flirtatious conversation that does not end or go silent after a day or two. You might not be one of those that have their hands and eyes glued to a mobile phone either...I'd actually prefer you being somebody that it literary and can write something of substance rather than 1-2 sentences at a time. I don't chat, send me a message!

I’m patient, I'm kind, open minded and not too bad to look at. When I'm at work I'm 100% business, when I'm with friends I'm social and outgoing, with an online friend I can be that wickedly fun man with the vivid imagination. I get discouraged easily when I sense there is low effort. I can be quite the engaging OA partner, but I need a female equal.

I'm in my 50s but far from dead. I'm in my mature prime...I'm blond with gray hair. I've a beard. I was called a silver fox last week and I figured...YEAH, I AM! I've blue eyes behind the eye glasses I now have to wear to read stuff. I'm in shape but not a gym rat. I'm healthy and trying to stay that way. I've not a suit and tie career, but I keep a decent fashion sense and try to not look like I dug a ditch when I'm commuting on public transit or walking the isles of the local grocer. I have a decent sense of humor and I am loquacious when I get into online banter but I'm at my best when we delve in some sexy story telling. I'm in the PST time zone, I'm a whiskey drinker, my Spotify plays lots of rock and classic rock, hockey is my sport. I work out but I'm more the type to hike and love the tree baths when it is warmer and sunnier. I don’t take myself very seriously and want to have fun with this. I like to get into some sexy talk and perhaps a role play scenario to divert from the normal talk we can have. We are obviously not going to run away together but it’s fun to imagine. Let’s help make each other feel better!!

If you read this message, and are compelled to reach out, please make your reply worth reading if you want me to respond.