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40 [m4f] - let's be an everyday vacation from the everyday for each other
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oscarthree is a male age 40 looking for a female
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Hey, how's it going? Not bad? Yeah, same with me. But also... not good either.

I'm in a functional marriage. We work, take care of the offspring, try to keep the house from being a complete disaster zone, then sleep and repeat. It works, but it's no fun.

A vacation sounds good. But vacations often mean the same thing in a different place. So let's be a little vacation for each other. Make each other excited for something. Be flirty and naughty when it feels good. Enjoy each other's company. Be fun and impractical.

Me: I've got the typical lame dad sense of humor with the accompanying dad physique. I'm not hyper masculine outwardly because I'm secure enough with who I am that I don't have to prove it all the time. I'm in est and can mostly talk during the workday and late at night but I try to be as available as I can. I'm still feeling the existential dread from last Tuesday. The holidays suck and I'd love to have someone to ride them out with. I think ghosting is a crime against humanity. If it's not working, we can be honest about it and not take it personally.

I'm looking for someone who is the female counterpart to the stuff I described above. If you read that and identify with it (other than, you know, being a dude), if love to hear from you. I'm looking for people around my age and in a similar situation: not bad, but could be better.

Send me a message with your best OA horror story so that we can set a low bar. I'll be around most of the day. Good luck out there!

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Age
40
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a female
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2 months ago