No one here wants to waste their time so I will get straight to the point - I'm a hot and fit (no dad bod) married guy that is looking for a safe, discreet, exclusive affair with someone that I'm truly attracted to and who makes me smile. I'd rather be patient and wait for the right person than settle - and you should too!

About me: I've been married for 5 years, no kids. I have a full head of hair, cute smile with a dimple, and a scruffy beard. I love exercising and try to take good care of my body, which is fit and toned. Good hygiene and well-dressed. I am also well-educated and I do well for myself working in private equity. I can chat about anything from sports to science, pop culture to politics. I like good coffee, good cocktails, and good conversation.

What I am looking for: Someone local to the NYC area or travels here regularly. To develop a deep, meaningful, long-lasting chemistry with someone married or in a LTR. Someone who knows what they want and is not on the fence about anything. Someone who has the time to give me that I plan to give to them. Someone confident, sexy, fun and witty.

What I am not looking for: Something strictly online. Someone that wants an AP but is too busy to actually make something work. I'm not looking for multiple APs - I want something special with that one person that is right for me. I don't want to take unnecessary risks and exclusivity is a good way to avoid that. Also, we all know that sex is better when there's a good connection, chemistry and lust.

Ideally you are open to exchanging pictures early to ensure a mutual physical attraction, and then moving things to Telegram to get to know each other better. I’m looking for IRL but of course will enjoy chatting with you in between meetings.

Send me a message and say hi - can't wait.