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If we are browsing here and maybe throwing up an ad that means we’ve hit a rut in our marriage and are seeking…something. A connection, friendship, being flirtatious, laughing. But there is probably a lot of starts and stops. Things seem to eventually fade. Or there’s a misunderstanding.
Maybe our expectations are too high. We are too wary. We have too many distractions. Our attention gets pulled in different directions. Maybe we just need a break from the Online chatting for a few days. Maybe we don’t want to send a nude pic until the mood and timing is just right.
I don’t know 🤷 but what I do know is we can’t be on our game all the time. However that doesn’t mean that you and I cannot meet and have some real fun conversations. Keep things interesting. Listen. Give and take.
Now, I know attraction it’s important. You don’t always want to invest time and effort with someone you can’t see wanting to fuck. Let’s be honest.
All I can you is a I think I still have that vibe. I get looks at the store, I stay in shape, I’m clean cut, I will make you laugh. Now if you’re a 20 something yoga instructor then your standards are rightfully higher. That’s ok.
But maybe we just need a long term friend. One that’s always there to chat, one that makes us laugh, one that if the circumstances allow we would happily share some soft kisses with.
I’m in AZ. Born and raised LDS but not active anymore. My wife and I are essentially roommates these days. I love sports, movies, documentaries, and anything Old West or Civil War related.
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