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At 41 and nestled in the heart of the Midwest, I’m on the lookout for something rare and meaningful—something that feels like Home. Not just a place, but a presence: easy, familiar, steady, and effortlessly deep. I know it’s a tricky balance—part impossible dream, part inevitable possibility. I’ve experienced it before, fleeting but real, and I believe it’s still out there waiting for the right moment and person.
I’m someone who lives with intention. And as a lover of books and music by nature, I stay engaged with the world around me. I thrive outdoors, be it hiking a quiet trail by a body of water or catching a game under the open sky, and my tastes run from bourbon neat to indie melodies that evoke nostalgia and capture that delicate interplay between joy and melancholy/ambition and stillness that mirrors my own experience.
I tend to check a lot of life’s boxes: intelligence, fitness, an eye for aesthetics, and a life framed by purpose (white picket fence vibes included). But it’s not just the external achievements that matter—I’m seeking a deeper connection, the kind where conversation flows easily and being together feels natural.
My ideal partner? Someone curious and thoughtful, a sapiosexual with a passion for music and the world beyond their doorstep. Someone who knows the comfort of a shared silence but also craves meaningful dialogue. A blend of independence and openness would make for an ideal match—ready to exchange positive affirmations and be present with one another, without pretense.
The future is now, and if this resonates with you, let’s explore what it could hold. Perhaps this time, we’ll build a sense of Home that lasts.
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