Ok, how should I put this, a good thing is maybe to start by telling something about me.

I'm married. I have kids. I'm not looking to change any situations, I'm looking for a companion. A connection, if you will. I've been married over 27 years now and things have dulled slowly for some time now. We are on the slow path to becoming roommates, but that doesn't mean I want out.

I like to think of an affair as a marriage in an alternate reality, where it's always that unsustainable feeling of excitement, butterflies, eagerness with no pressures of the mundane responsibilities of life. We just enjoy each other, mentally and sexually, were always waiting for that pocket of time to rush to each other, hungry for a message, a photo, a reminder that you're special and seen and appreciated.

About you: you're eager to go in deep and form a real bond. You're willing to put effort in our communication (not just a what's up, hey, etc. Cause what am I gonna do with that??). Your age should be not much younger than me but honestly it's about who you are and age is just a number. I do have physical preferences ( curvy women are my weakness) but whatever you are is not a deal breaker. I like women with a sense of humour, who are dominant, and hopefully smarter and wiser than me.

I don’t have six-pick more like a dad bod. I’m not well hung quite the opposite to be fair. But I hope that doesn’t matter. I do workout though 4 times a week but sometimes the bed wins and I promise to go tomorrow. Brown hair, brown eyes. I'm a homebody but when I do go out the beach is where I'm headed most of the time. I like gaming, reading, being a lazy potato and watching netflix, cooking and travelling when I can.

I want to get to someone who can make me laugh and who is comfortable being intimate early on. I'm curious for a sexual connection, and I want to be clear about that. Only online, so don't expect any kind of meet-ups. I am not experienced in online play, or roleplay, sexting, or whatever it’s called. Maybe mutual online masturbation? I don’t care how you look along as you are curious and imaginative.