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First things first—I'm aware that there are some negative experiences out there and that some guys come across as pushy or even creepy, but I promise I’m not one of them. So here goes:
I see my posts are reaching hundreds, even thousands, of people, but I'm not getting much interaction. I like to think I'm pretty clever and charming, and I actually put time into what I write. So, what catches your attention enough to make you want to respond? What kind of message would get you to reach out?
For the conversations I do get, sometimes we’ll have a great back-and-forth for a few days, and then suddenly, silence. I know life gets busy and that constant conversation isn’t always possible, but if you’re not feeling the connection, wouldn’t it be easier just to say so? Why do we often disappear instead of just letting the other person know?
And lastly, there are those times when someone reaches out, but it feels like they’re giving one-word answers. I feel like I’m playing 20 Questions! Don’t get me wrong; I’d love to get to know all about you. But it’s a lot more enjoyable when it feels like a two-way conversation. So, if you reach out, bring your curiosity too!
Thanks for reading, and if you're up for chatting—and maybe more—drop me a message. Looking forward to it!
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